
This is my last semester as a college student. Graduation here I come, Woo-hoo! Actually, I’m a bit sad about this at times, but delighted about moving on. Wasn’t anticipated being here for 5 years but like they say in life “everything happens for a reason.” Monday January 10, begins the first day of my last semester as a student at Holy Family University. Two classes this semester stand in my way of reaching my dream. American History 1820 and Two Dimension Design according to my advisors and then I’m done.

This has been a hard, long five-year road. At times it was difficult seeing my friends’ by-passing me in their academic achievements. But never the less I’m almost at the light at the end of the tunnel and I can’t wait to put this behind me and strive for other things, in areas that I really want to pursue. Overall the experience I had here at HFU was great. Aside from doing things like interning, side jobs, freelance work, it was a great experience. And I know that when I graduate there’s such a big, scary world out there. I’m faced with many questions about what to do after graduation. There’s the economy: will I even find a job after graduation? There’s my own self doubt: am I adequately prepared to be part of the work force? Do I even want to work when I’m finished? I also worry about if I’ll ever make it back to school. Ideally, I would love to get a master degree in public communications eventually, but there’s always the possibility that life will take me in another direction and I’ll never find time to go to graduate school. I realize that all these thoughts are probably irrelevant now, and I should probably just focus on the present and not the future. But it’s hard to be distracted from the future when it’s so large and mysterious. I still wonder how these five years gone by so quickly? I feel like it was only yesterday that I strolled into town from Brooklyn, New York, knowing nothing more about Philadelphia than the fact that it was the city of brotherly love. No major, no plan, just parents who threatened to disown me if I didn’t go to college.
In the past five years I’ve declared a major (and two minors), I put myself out on a limb to get work experience, learned a few things about time management, and networking, and deadlines. It’s funny looking a my school ID which still has my picture from freshman year.(The younger days) but look at me now, fully grown beard and finally maturity kicked in.

Valery Cadet
As a freshman, I remember looking at seniors and saying “man they must have it all together,” and I imagined that I would too. I thought by spring of my senior year I would have several jobs lined up to choose from, and would probably be in a serious relationship with some foxy woman, would have saved tons of money, and making straight A’s. Mostly all impossible goals. It proves how naïve I was at 18. I’ve learned that things don’t always work out like you envision them. Life throws surprises at you. You learn things outside the classroom things that you never considered, like how to pay your own bills on time, how to recover from a night of drinking, and how to say goodbye to friends who were going nowhere fast in life.

ETC Building
The place at Holy Family I’ll miss the most is the lower level of the library, where I spend a lot of time studying and sleeping on that black colored leather sofa with the red pillows.

I’ll miss my conversation with Pat Wood from the financial aid office. She was always straight forward with me and school me on financial aid 101; a class she gives free of charge.

I’ll miss the ladies at the business office; they were always nice to me and made the business side of school more pleasant.


I would like to thank my advisor Dr. Pelham, she made me a better writer; always pushed me to continue exploring different elements of writing. Their are a lot of things that I’ve learned here at Holy Family University. I should be proud of them. All the cramming, the exams, the papers, the risks, the losses. Whatever has seen me through the past 8 semesters, let’s just hope it carry over to what ever I may venture out to in the near future. May 14! I’m counting down the days 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6……
